We have a tendency to indulge in the negative and overlook the positive. If there is any work to be done, it is to try to focus on the positive.
The modern day idea of winning, success, competition & dominion is deep rooted in demarcations of ‘I’ and ‘You’ and all distress & chaos are ripples of this idea.
I used to want to be somewhere else, doing something else until I came across the notion of the warrior and the artist.
Living in a state of constant irritation is also not a healthy state-of-affairs. So figure out what it is about others that irritate you and if it is you projecting your own inadequacies, then do something about it.
At its core maturity is a matter of developing the capacity to be selfless, the capacity to forego what is good for me in order to take care of what is good for you.
It is absolutely essential then that we cultivate the capacity to recognize struggle so that we can deal with it in a healthy and enlightening manner.